I could probably write a dozen posts about all the things going on lately, but I'll just do a condensed version of everything and cram it into one!
Work: If you have heard anything about the real estate market this year, you know that it's been one for the record books. Supply hasn't kept up with demand, so buyers are having to move quickly, make very strong offers, and sometimes face a lot of competition. I've been working with a lot of buyers lately, who usually don't have time for showings during the typical workday, so my nights and weekends are full! It's not uncommon for me to be up at midnight, answering emails, researching properties, scheduling showings, etc. It's stressful, and Meezy has had to be a single parent a lot, but it's important for the growth of my career and for me as a provider. November has already been a great month, and will continue to be, which is good because we're going to be spending a lot on repairs (See: Home).
Friends: It's been tough to find time for friends (See: Work), but I have squeezed in a few opportunities. In the past couple of weeks, I got to go to a birthday party for my good friend's son, a baby shower for another friend, dinner with a friend visiting from out of town, dinner with my bestie, football watching with one of our favorite couples, a neighborhood chili cook-off, a ladies movie night (About Time was awesome), and we'll be hosting a get together for friends later this month. It's important to keep up a social life so I don't end up hating my job!
Home: Let's just start this section off with a Sigh. Deep breath. It's a good thing this month has been successful for me with work, because it's not so good on the home front. First off, we have scheduled foundation work for next week. We knew it was needed when we bought the house, and negotiated a lower sales price because of it, but it's time to pull the trigger on getting it fixed. That's not cheap, but it's necessary. Next, we think we have a leak somewhere around our pool. The water level is dropping way too quickly, so we have to pay a company to come out and test for leaks (which isn't cheap), and then see what it's going to take to repair. Next, we think we have a leak somewhere around Dutch's bathroom. There's a mildewy smell when you walk into it, which my sister experienced when her shower had a leak and all the sub-flooring had rotted. I'm worried we have something similar, so we're going to get a plumber out to check. If there's a leak, it won't be cheap to fix! After all of this is taken care of, we have to get new tile installed in Dutch's bathroom. Part of the floor was disturbed when we removed a closet and opened up the wall to install a door, and we need to get it repaired. Can you say epic home improvement expenses?
Family: I haven't spent a lot of time with my family lately because of work, but there are a couple notable things to mention. My nephew proposed to his girlfriend, which was very exciting! (Short summary: Camden Yards, ring in a baseball, personalized jersey, family hiding in the dugout. Awesome). He and his fiance will be visiting from DC over Thanksgiving, and I'm happy we'll get to spend time with them. We're planning a family whirlyball gathering over the holiday weekend. We'll also take a short trip to Amarillo to catch up with Meezy's family.
Health: My health has kinda sucked lately. I feel like I have a perpetual cold, and despite increasing my walks with Dutch, I've gained a couple pounds. Quite disappointing. Meezy and I are in the midst of a plank challenge, though, so that's cool. Every day in November we plank twice a day, slowly increasing the time each day. We're up to a minute now, and it's definitely getting easier each day. I think we'll try a different challenge in December. Wall sits, maybe?
Meezy: Man, I owe this guy big time. He has been incredibly patient with my work schedule lately and has taken on way more than 50% of the parenting responsibilities. We haven't gotten to go on a fancy date in a while, but we have been able to sneak in some weekday lunches while Dutch is at daycare. It's nice to be able to take a break from work and spend some time with my love. My favorite time with Meezy lately has been when we swap stories of the adorable stuff Dutch has done. We're just so in love with that kid.
Dutchie: By far, this is my favorite topic to write about! The kid is just blowing my mind with how much he learns. He understands so much, even if his vocabulary can't quite convey it yet. From being able to name tons of different animals, to recognizing multiple alphabet letters, I'm just in awe of him. He has also recently learned that we have nicknames for our doggies, and he grasps that they have multiple names. That probably sounds silly, but I'm impressed by his understanding of that. When Casey goes outside to use the bathroom, he exclaims, "Good job, Pitties!" (We used to call her Pretty Casey, which we shortened to "Pitty" for some reason). Dutch has also mastered the use of the Ipad and Iphone, and can, within seconds, open the camera app to take a million selfies or open the youtube app to watch videos. We also have a Monkey Preschool Lunchbox game on our devices that he can easily navigate to and play entirely on his own. He says, "I see cars!" or "I see big truck!" I think the maximum length of his sentences is about 3-4 words, but that's pretty good for a 20 month old. I could go on and on!